会说话的人惹人喜欢，不会说话的人会冷场，这种情况在现实和网络上都适用。拒绝冷场首先要学会善于“闲聊”，说起来简单，但却隐含了多方面的应变能力，包括要考虑到当时的聊天环境，对方什么性格，聊天的内容等。
Although seemingly trivial and superficial, small talk is the starting point of all relationships. Romances and friendships begin with small talk. In a more pragmatic light, you can't avoid it. Getting a job, working with colleagues, winning new clients–all of it requires small talk.
In a time where a big part of our lives has moved online, the art of small talk is elusive and mysterious. The awkward experience of feeling like a total outsider at a social function, such as a company event or a dinner party, is shared by many of us.
虽然看似琐碎肤浅，但闲聊却是建立一切关系的切入点。爱情和友谊都始于闲聊。更实际一点考虑的话，你不可能避免闲聊。求职、与同事共事、攻下新客户，这些都离不开闲聊。
在这个生活逐步网络化的时代，闲聊的艺术不可思议又难以捉摸。我们中的很多人都曾有过在公司活动、宴会等社交场合中上化身“局外人”的尴尬经历。
small talk就是“闲聊”的意思。small看似一个普普通通的词，却可以和其他单词组合成一些有趣的词组和习惯用法，又如small hours 凌晨时分、small potato 小人物，小事情等。
托福考试中，大家看到“small talk ”第一印象是什么?小聊一下?
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